I have a boyfriend who is mexican, we have been together for quite some time now, and he likes to go dancing. I am a white American. I feel bad when he askes me to go, because I hesitate. It’s not that I don’t want to go I really do. I have actually went dancing with him three times before, but everytime I go I freeze and feel nervous. I don’t know which dances are which and I get really nervous when we are dancing apart from eachother. How could I learn how to dance. I am a shy person sometimes, but I would like to show him that I could go out and dance, not be afraid because I think maybe people are looking at me, and think I look like I am a wannabe! I enjoy the music and dances I just don’t know how.